Social messengers is a fun place, you get to interact with friends and family and also meet new people. For the guys it’s a place to meet new chicks and you know, have fun.
In this post I will teach you how to get any girl you just added on any messenger. Bring out your pen and paper and take notes. Lol.
Well being nice isn’t as easy as you think. Begin chats with Hello, Good day, instead of sup, howdy, hiya etc. Be respectful and play it calm and cool. When she asks how you got her pin, number or username as the case may be, tell her the truth but mix it up with a little lie (wink) e.g. “I got your pin from my friend Paul, I had lost all my contacts in a phone crash and asked him to please share some with me.” If she asks to see your picture, send her the best you have. That’s all, no girl will delete you when you are nice (NB: AVOID GETTING DELETED!)
Women are very technical and they can most times be ‘very very’ annoying. Let’s put it this way; you are chatting with a girl, you are being nice, yet she’s being funny (funny as in annoying. Lol). E.g.
You: Hello, good evening.
You: How are you today?
You: How was your day?
Now you get the picture yeah? That crap can be very very annoying, but I’ll give you a solution that works right now (What are Friends for?). The solution is simple, be patient, don’t be in a hurry to call her sweet names like sweetheart, dear, baby, etc (Girls hate that shit). Avoid those names, address her by her real names instead e.g. Hi Bella, Hello Bella etc.
Let her ease up to you, do not force her (You’ll end up annoying her). In fact, don’t message her right away, just let her sit on your list, so she can look at your display pictures (dp), statuses (pm) etc, compliment her pictures from time to time and talk about her pms too. Ping her after like a week or more again and if she’s still saucy, repeat the step for as long as it takes, she’ll come around sooner or later (Yeah I said be patient right?). Trust me!
Your pictures, statuses and broadcast messages (NB: Don’t send bcs too often) says a lot about you and believe me ladies are always watching, especially if you just added them. They want to know who you are by the things you put up, so please do not keep putting pictures of yourself in boxers or in unpleasant places on display (NB: Avoid putting too much of everything; too much clubs, church, school, girls etc on display). Make your profile very presentable and matured and send only important broadcasts (NB: avoid unnecessary and dry jokes). Remember, she’s always watching.
BE A FRIEND
This is one of the most vital step in all. By this time you must have collected her number and started calling her from time to time until she starts calling back and misses you when you fail to call in a while (NB: Don’t bombard her with calls). A girl must be able to talk to you about anything and everything; Like when her boyfriend is messing up (NB: Never asks a girl you have intentions about if she has a boyfriend. Don’t ask why.), when her dad makes her upset, when she’s fighting with her bestie, when she has mp (if you don’t know the meaning, google it) etcetera. You have to make her trust you; asks her about her day in details and comment on points she brings up. When her pm indicates she’s sad, moody, lonely or bored, message her, inquire reasons and comfort her. (NB: Becareful, sometimes it’s a trap). If this step is done right, it will lead to her wanting to see you so badly (NB: Do not ask to see her until she starts hinting towards or ask for it).
If the you follow this post step by step, you should be seeing her right about now (NB: This post is more helpful if you guys haven’t seen each other before or you’ve seen her but she hasn’t seen you yet). Make your first meeting venue neutral or at her place (Do not meet at your place on the first date except she asks for it). Do not try to over impress by wearing too much, a simple casual outfit will do just fine and make sure your nails are trim, your hair properly cut and you have your perfume on (NB: If it’s at your place then make sure you clean the place nicely and use a little air freshener, do not cook cause there’s an 80% chance she won’t eat). Do not try to over impress and do not set a standard that is too high, cause you will have problems maintaining it. Remember a good first date leads to more dates so Just BE YOU!
Well gentlemen, I suppose you can find your way from here. These are the 5 basic steps to follow if you are to win over a BBM girl except you are really rich or a famous celebrity, at which point you don’t need any of them.