Ladies how do you spot a man who is out to waste your time and avoid entering into a relationship with him? Relationship expert Joro Olumofin has listed ways to identify such men.
The self-acclaimed psychologist has taken time to explain 18 ways ladies can spot ‘useless’ men from afar (or in his words, fuck boys) and avoid entering into relationships with them.
Sharing the tips, he wrote:
1. Who is a ‘useless man’? : A ‘useless man’ is any guy who comes into a lady’s life with the sole purpose of taking, taking and taking from her without giving her anything meaningful or noble in return. He takes her time, years of her life, he uses her body as a playground and tool, he stands in the way of real men while prophesying fake love and selling ladies false dreams and hope. A ‘useless man’ is the older brother to Yoruba Demons.
Characteristics of a ‘useless man’:
1) A ‘useless man’ uses the promise of marriage as a tool to bait ladies into sleeping with him.
2) A ‘useless man’ has 1 or 2 engagements rings in the picture gallery or possession to deceive 100’s of ladies the ring is for them.
3) Any guy who talks about something special but not defined is a ‘useless man’ .
4) Any guy who is over 35, single, sharing an apartment, always at sip & quilox.
5) A ‘useless man’ will trap you with babies (baby mama) or tattoos on your body.
6) A ‘useless man’ only remembers you when he wants to sleep with you or sees a fine picture of you on IG or bbm.
7) A ‘useless man’ is ‘very prayerful’ and uses the Bible and midweek service to deceive ladies.
8) Any guy who his parents, family and friends call you “our iyawo” and you’ve been dating him for 2 years is a ‘useless man’.
9) Any guy who has eaten your food for more than a year and hasn’t proposed is a ‘useless man’ .
10) A ‘useless man’ is always asking for nudes. He keeps a gallery of your nudes and threatens to release them if you dare to leave him.
11) A ‘useless man’ is handsome, tall, rich, he spends all his money on himself but not on assets, his body and his looks are his assets.
12) Any guy who cries for no reason to get your attention and make you stay with him is a ‘useless man’.
13) Any guy who asks more than one pastor, Alfa, Imam to call you every time is a ‘useless man’ .
14) Any guy who wants you to depend on him financially without you having yours is a ‘useless man’ .
15) Any guy who is always liking pictures on IG morning to night and posting “cute, pepper them, slay ” on every girls page is a ‘useless man’ .
16) Any guy whose phone is always on silent, no vibrate, his whatsapp messages don’t turn blue is a ‘useless man’ .
17) ‘Useless men’ see fornication and the amount of girls they sleep with as an achievement or bank alert. The more they sleep with, the more their ego is gratified.
18) Any guy who displays eggplants and nudes all over social media is a potential ‘useless man’
Why ladies fall for ‘useless men’:
‘Useless men’ are the epitome of gentlemen in their looks, smooth talk, charm, courtesy, religious beliefs and courtship. They will scatter any lady’s defense in 48 hours. Most ladies know in their hearts that a guy is a ‘useless man’ and is not the best for them, but curiosity and emotions get the best of ladies. Ladies always think they can change a man or a miracle can happen and he would be an angel. Breaking news ladies, no amount of prayers and caring can change someone who sees you as his prey, a tool and lunch.
How do ‘useless men’ affect us:
In Psychology, after a traumatic relationship the victims are emotionally scarred and most times all the good in them are lost. ‘Useless men’ turn good, decent girls into ticking time bombs, they suck all the juice out of a lady and leave her to rot. Most ladies who loved and were attached to ‘useless men’ are psychologically, emotionally demanding. They live recklessly, abuse alcohol. Their mantra and motto is : “To hell with all guys, all guys are the same, I’m becoming a lesbian, I’m not good enough for anyone “
Do you agree with him?