Well we all know they are 2 types of guys, the real ones and those just out for what is between your legs. Well in this post I will give you a few tips on how you can know the difference between the two and how to spot a guy who’s using. Read below;
1. HE APPEARS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE: Back then our parents used to say if something is too good to be true, then it is. Well it’s same here, if he seems too good to be true, then he probably is just using you. He pays attention to your problems, always shows care, infact he’s everything you wished for in a man. That’s simply because he wants to get into your pants as quickly as possible. Everyone has a flaw, and if you can’t find a flaw in him, then you should run.
2. HE IS TOO QUICK TO INVITE YOU OVER: You met him on a social media, you guys start talking, you get really close and maybe you fall for him. But if the first time he wants to see you he invites you over to his place then you should know he wants your behind. The first date should be in a neutral place, a nice restaurant perhaps. If he says you should come to his house before asking to take you out, then it’s obvious what he wants.
3. HE’S ALWAYS STIRRING THE CONVERSATIONS TOWARDS SEX: If he keeps talking s3xual or links your sentences to s3xual meaning then it simple what he wants. If he cant have a nice conversation with you without bringing up the S word or implying them, then you should be careful. It’s as simple as it gets.
4. HE INTRODUCES YOU TO HIS FRIENDS WITH SWEET WORDS THAT ISN’T GIRLFRIEND: Sarah meet my friend Mark, Mark this is Sarah, my sweetheart or my darling or my angel or my…(you know them). As long as he doesn’t say my girlfriend, then you are not one! You are simply a tool in his hands; it’s that simple. You might think you guys are dating, but watch how he introduces you first before judging that.
5. HE NEVER FLAUNTS YOU: They are many ways a guy can flaunt a girl. Infact once a guy really likes you or love you, he can’t hide you; He always looks for ways to flaunt you. Back to the first sentence, they are many ways a guy can flaunt a girl he likes, BBM dps, he always takes pictures with you at any opportunity he gets, he always takes you out and hold your hands while taking long strolls Etc. If he doesn’t do these, if he doesn’t take photos with you or have a pic of you on his phone then you are simply a tool he just want for sex and is keeping lowkey.
Well those are 5 simple ways for you Ladies to know what you are into, a relationship or bangingtionship. All the bests.