Me and my fiancé are starting to plan our wedding. It has been brought to my attention from my fiancé that he does not want my best friend to be in our wedding because she is not attractive. He says he doesn’t want her ruining our wedding photos and only wants attractive people in our wedding party. I think that this is absurd. I feel like my best friend will be assuming she is in the wedding party, but when I don’t ask her she will question it.
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If your best friend isn’t too ugly to be your best friend, to be with you in public, to be in all of your other photos, she is not too ugly to be in the wedding party. When you look back at those photos, her absence will ruin them for you. And excluding her based on her looks alone would be ugly indeed.